Wednesday, January 11, 2012

michael jackson news forumMy Michael Jackson grief... when will it get easier?

It's been over a month now, and to be honest, I have cried every single day and night since I found out Michael Jackson died. I think I am becoming depressed because of it. I went shopping the other day and the store was playing a MJ song and I went and hid in the change room and cried so much that i gave myself a nosebleed. I am heartbroken. I am not coping with the thought of him dying, or his children being used in a game of tug-o-war.
My heart feels empty and it aches for him and his kids. I don't know what to do. I have even tried to stop looking on youtube and also google for news updates but it doesn't seem to work. I am still as sad about it as before. Can anyone give me some advice on what I should do, or point me in the right direction of an online forum of other fans who are finding it hard to come to terms with this awful loss?

I love you Michael Jackson.... rest peacefully sweet heart
I am so glad to have found someone that feels the same as me. his death impacted my life so much. now I only listen to his music, and I honestly think I have cried more over his death then my own grandmas. even though I didn't know him, it felt like I did. I always had a soft spot for him in my heart. it hurt me so much to see all of the lies spread about him.
I am so concerned for his children, he was their life. watching Paris at the memorial made me cry more than I already was.
I don't know when we will feel better about this, but I hope this doesn't get worse because I don't think I can handle it. :(

good luck with this situation.

I hope we both get throug these tough times.

rest in peace michael Joseph Jackson.
I'm not saying your psycho or anything, but you do really need too see a doctor. You are not coping well. You obviously were a huge fan beforehand and he must have impacted your life so greatly, and its hard to greif when he's everywhere.

Focus on the positive. It was a loss but he made such an impact on the world, the legend will live on forever.So in a way, he's always in our hearts.
im sure michael would want his fan's and family to be happy i know it's very hard but it's the same when you lose a family member i been threw losing my mother when i was 18 to cancer then last year my sister died it's hard but we have to go on till god calls us home maybe it will help to talk to people get a group
If you are black know that he didn't want or like your black a ss, would never have dated you or married you or been seen with you in public unless you were blood related or when white people started treating his black a ss like the black person he was Then he would have you around to support him when he cmichael jackson news forumalled racism. If you are white, kill yourself.
You are truly lost and need to step back into reality and stop living in this fantasy world where your life is affected by someone's death you do not even know.

He was a singer for crying out loud. I feel sorry for your friends and family who have to deal with you.

Get a life!
I know it hurts that MJ is gone sweetheart. But you have to remember that he is now in heaven and is living a better life than he was before. And one day, you may get lucky enough to meet him in heaven.
When time goes by, and you mature, and Life has greater priorities than it does right now...

Have I ever got over Elvis' death...no, not really but I have moved on and just think of him and his music as a warm memory...
don't worry, its only been a month. just listen to his music, and make a shrine, and think of some things that you liked about him, and before you know it, you'll deal with it!
Read the following very carefully. SEE A SHRINK.
Get over it! You didn′t know him. It isn′t like losing a family member. People like you really make me mad
You need some serious help. Go to a doctor
lsiten to his songs u will feel better thats the way i heal my pain :(
aww :( don't be so upset. its natural but still, he wouldn't want you to be sad. think about it like this, now he's got away from everyone being mean to him and now he's in heaven :)
i can't give you any advice on how to get over it, but you can email me or something and i can talk to you about it ?

listen to his music, the ones like smile and you are not alone.. chances are they'll make you cry to start of with but they always end up making me smile in the end. x

Smile, though your heart is aching
Smile, even though it's breaking
When there are clouds in the sky
You'll get by...

If you smile
With your fear and sorrow
Smile and maybe tomorrow
You'll find that life is still worthwhile
Thats so sweet. Yes the pain will ease but it will take some time. Don't pay attention to the negative comments. MJ was loved by millions and his sudden death was a huge shock. Now we have to listen to the media bash him after his death. I still cry when I hear Man in the Mirror or You Are Not Alone. I think about him all the time. He has been a part of my life since I was a child. I hate all the pain he had to deal with in life. Its very sad but know that he is in a much better place where nothing can hurt him anymore. Go to michaeljackson.com and leave a memory for him. It lovely to read how ppl feel about him all over the world. LOVE YOU MJ

edit<wtf is MIMI talking about? that doesn't make any sense
Aw :) Just keep listening to his music.

Trmichael jackson news forumy not to cry. MJ didn't like sad children, he like happy ones!

EDIT: Why the f**k am I gettin' thumbs down?! I didn't say anything wrong. He hated seeing sad children! FFS, I'm only telling the truth. And to the girl below, shut up you fire-haired tramp!
WOW - you really need to consider some professional counseling. This is way out of the norm for someone to carry on the way you are. I would hate to see how you would react when a family member dies.
Dying is part of life and it is never easy to cope with no matter who you are. The reality of this is that you are fixated on a pop star whom you have never met and was totally crazy.
You need to get over it and move on with life. The odds are, you have never had any true responsibilies in life and everything has been handed to you. You idea of disappointment is not getting the clothes you want or not getting a certain flavor of ice cream when you want it.

Grow up and stop being such a child!

Jester made some good points although cruel but he stated some truths which you are too blind to see.
I no how u feel :(
I like literally am in love with him
I think about him every minute of every day
He was such an amazing person His music lightens up my day ..
Hopefully the grieving will stop one day
Just think michael is in a better place now moon-walking in heaven away from the tabloids and the hurt .
His music will live on forever and ever
Legends never really die :)
Just dont think of himm as dead
He will live on in all his fans hearts and his family

Be strong :) Listen to some of his up beat music like dont stop till you get enough :D and dance your heart away

Remember the words of his fave song:
Smile though your heart is aching
smile even though its breaking
Though there are clouds in the sky
You'lle get by
If you just
SMILE :)

Love u michael x Love all M.J fans x

Ps:Michael jackson haters who are talking dirt about a dead man show some respect you ignorent AV儿劣 Holes your the ones who are being childish not us!
Michael is beautiful :)
ohhh :( i feel so sad for you and you are definitely not alone just keep strong and go out places with people that make you laugh and try to be happy and i have been watching videos on you tube about him so much and i think it has helped but just think that hes in a better place
hope you get better and again YOU ARE NOT ALONE!!!! :)
Don't be sad, Michael will come back to visit us if we behave good.

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